On page 108 in Steve Harveys book "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man." Harvey talks about why men cheat. He explains in detail what it feels like to cheat on someone, the guilt and the remorse felt. Also, he explains the feeling of thinking he lost someone for good and how bad it hurt. His tone seems cocky, in the sense that he talks as if he has experienced these situations personally before. He even says in the paragraph, "We understand penalties and we knows its going to be straight hell. Trust me, I know."